- Starburst jelly beans
- cheap wine
- expensive wine
- the fact that just because I love wine people will think I’m a lush (I’m totally not. I have a glass – maybe two – every other day or less. My doctor told me it’s one of the best things I can do for myself as long as I’m not averaging more than one per day. Plus it feels like something an adult would do, ya know? I sip and enjoy. I don’t overdo it.)
- nonfiction essays (especially humorous ones)
- Romance novels (not, like, lady porn or anything – just some fluff every now and then… and maybe a good cozy mystery)
- Classic novels (for when fluff and reality won’t cut it)
- comics
- basically, to read stuff
- brownies
- when little children laugh
- dogs
- horses
- birds
- fine, all animals, then
- cooking (especially old family recipes when I need comfort food, and also trying brand new ones that are more gourmet)
- comedic movies
- action movies
- my best friend (who told me I had to write this list)
- music (pretty much all of it)
- family
- sunsets (I’m far too lazy to get up early enough for a sunrise, if I can help it.)
- trees
- climbing trees (I don’t get to indulge in this often enough. I’m told adults don’t climb trees, to which I say, pfffft.)
- singing
- driving (especially road trips)
- traveling! (though I rarely ever get to do so)
- writing
- my job! (for reals – and how many people do you know who can say that?)
- the fact that only about 3 people read this blog but I love the heck out of writing it anyway
- people who use proper grammar and spelling (this is a personal problem I’m working through)
- people who are willing to do my dishes (see “Things I Hate”)
- peanut M&Ms
- fishing with my grandfather
- inside jokes
- laughing at myself
- making people smile
- quiet time
- the beach (pretty much any beach)
- almost any natural body of water for that matter
- heights (that’s right – I love high places)
- bright colors
- drawing
- baking (not to be confused with cooking)
- flowers (except the ones that smell like dead things or funeral homes)
- resilient people
- doughnuts (I’m starting to wonder how I don’t weigh 400 pounds the longer this list gets.)
- Greek salads! (HA! I DO like one healthy thing!)
- a clean house, especially if I didn’t have to clean it (*dreeeeeeeeeeam….dream, dream, drea-eam….*)
- rain
- also, thunderstorms
- hugs (but ONLY from a very select few people, because I have a personal bubble of space that tends to be wider than most other people’s and I like it that way)
- finding ways to fix things that are broken and make them better (This can also be on the list of things I hate if it’s something I feel like I have to do all the time, but I like the challenge in general. This is not effective or fun when dealing with broken people, who I tend to avoid.)
- the fact that I’m much more comfortable now in my majestic awkwardness than I was a decade ago
- getting letters the old-fashioned way, via snail mail
…and lots of other things I’m sure I’ll add at a later date.
(There! Now I’ve balanced it. Better?)
Good job. Now I want you to print both of those out. I want you to carry them with you this week and when someone does someone on either list, I want you to tell them why you do or don’t like what they just did. I want you to confront these things with your grace and kindness, in the loving way that you do. You are not a sheep- you are a roaring lion and the world could use a lot of your wisdom! You will not let yourself be walked over any more. You are strong, you are passionate, you are talented, and you will use your voice to express your inner most self! Call me bossy, but I think your week may be different than it was the last week. You will make decisions that are painful but decisions that will move you forward and stop holding you back into non-movement. You are powerful!
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